Showing posts with label spina bifida diagnosis. Show all posts
Showing posts with label spina bifida diagnosis. Show all posts

Saturday, October 27, 2012

Day 10: Listen to your Instincts and Press for Results


31 Letters to the New Mom of a Child with Spina Bifida
Day 10: Listen to your Instincts and Press for Results:  3rd Post in the series-Being your Child’s Advocate

Dear Momma,

When we brought Jaycie home from the hospital in November, I was terrified.  I worried that we wouldn’t know what to do if her shunt malfunctioned.  For us it wasn’t long before we were faced with that situation.  The week after Christmas, I noticed she was more sleepy than usual and wasn’t really herself.  I also noticed that her tubing from her shunt appeared to be more noticeable and looked like a question mark under her skin on the back of her head.  I

Friday, October 19, 2012

Day 9: Knowing the Process of Referrals and Authorization- Second of 5 Posts on Being Your Child’s Advocate


31 Letters to the New Mom of a Child with Spina Bifida

Day 9: Knowing the Process of Referrals and Authorization- Second of 5 Posts on Being Your Child’s Advocate
This day 9 in my 31 day blogging challenge on my daughter's Spina Bifida diagnosis.  I hope the information in these posts is helpful to someone.
Dear Momma,
As your child’s advocate, you must understand the process for medical referrals and authorization.  Every state and insurance company will be different in some aspects so the best thing you can do is find out how it all will work for your child.  Trust me, driving 4 ½ hours with a baby to have a CT scan done and finding out when you get there that the insurance will not cover it is no fun.  Save yourself the aggravation and keep reading.   Below are 5 things you can do to ensure your child is receiving the proper care at appropriate times:

1.       Contact your insurance agent, find out what medical procedures need to have prior authorization and which procedures, equipment and appointments do not.  Let them know what procedures your child might need over the next year and find out the procedures for requesting insurance payment of them.  Record all this info and place in your child’s medical binder.

2.       Ask your child’s Primary Physician, how the referral process works and who is in charge of authorizations and referrals in their office. GET ON A FIRST NAME BASIS with the person in charge of that process and make sure you have their contact info in the medical binder.

3.       Follow-up with everyone until the procedure has been completed or the equipment has been received.  Be persistent, follow-up with your child’s primary physician, the medical specialist involved (neurosurgeon, physical therapist, etc…), the insurance company, the equipment vendor and the authorization specialist in your child’s physician’s office.

4.       Don’t back down, if there is a specialist, doctor or agent that is not completing their paperwork in a timely manner…stay on them-be a “squeaky wheel” until they get with the program.  If they aren’t getting any better about it, find someone else (supervisor or new doctor).  Your child’s health and well-being are more important than loyalty to someone that is not doing their job!

5.       Rinse and Repeat.  Every medical procedure will require attention before you ever get to the doctor’s office and insurance policies get updated or changed  so be prepared to repeat steps 1-4 frequently.

With Love,

Sherry

P.S. Don’t forget to have all records from any appointment, procedure or evaluation sent directly to your home address or ask for copies before you leave the office.

Day 8: Asking questions- First of 5 Posts on Being Your Child’s Advocate


31 Letters to the New Mom of a Child with Spina Bifida

Day 8: Asking questions- First of 5 Posts on Being Your Child’s Advocate
Today is day 8 in my 31 day blogging challenge about my daughter's Spina Bifida Diagnosis.  The next few posts will be a series of 5 posts on being your child's advocate. 
Dear Momma,
After Jaycie was born, she had to lie on her belly until she had her back closure surgery (surgery was within 24 hours of her birth.).  After the surgery she had to continue to lie on her belly for several days until her incisions had started to heal.  During that time she developed a horrible rash on her bottom.  It was awful-looking.  Red and at times it would even bleed.  As her Mom, I was mortified that she had it to start with so I started to ask questions.  I knew the nurses in the NICU were using ointment when we were not there but what I couldn’t understand is why it was a different type every time we had a nurse shift change.   One nurse would use vaseline, one would use a typical zinc-based ointment and one used something I had never heard of.  The other thing was they were leaving her diaper on her when we weren’t there.  So I started to ask the nurse questions.  “Why are they changing her creams?”  “Why aren’t they letting her bottom air dry?” When I started to ask those questions that wonderful nurse gave me answers and she told me something that I have held onto ever since.  She said, “You are the Mom, what you say should be put into the nurse’s notes.  What would you like for us to do?”  So I told her that I wanted the urologist to recommend a cream for the rash and we will all use only that cream.  I also told her to put into the notes that when Jaycie is in her bed, that the diaper should be placed under her, but not over her bottom.  She needed to stay as dry as possible until we could get it all cleared up.  In less than 2 days the rash was gone and I was empowered to know that as her Mother I could make decisions regarding her care.  I want you to know that you have every right to ask questions and make suggestions about her care.  This is the first of 5 posts about being your child’s advocate.  Today, I want you to be empowered to ask questions.  Ask the seemingly small questions along with the huge questions.    

With Love,

Sherry
P.S.  I you have any information or stories of your own "empowerment" please share it with us.

Thursday, October 11, 2012

Day 5: Laughter is the Best Medicine

31 Letters to the new Mom of a child with Spina Bifida
Day 5:  Laughter is the Best Medicine

Dear Momma,

Throughout the process of Jaycie's diagnosis, her birth and bringing her home; our family found some wonderful comfort in laughter.  I wanted to share the videos below to let you know it is okay to laugh again. 

With Love,

Sherry




Wednesday, October 10, 2012

Day 4: The Process

31 Letters to the new mom of a child with Spina Bifida
Day 4: The Process
Dear Momma,

Whether you found out while you were pregnant or didn’t know until your little one was born, you will still need to understand and face the process that is “grieving”.  When my husband and I first found out about Jaycie’s Spina Bifida diagnosis, I was numb.